TRAVEL: [BALI Escape] Of Comic, Candle & Cuppacoffee.

If you have been a long time reader,

you would have known by now 

that I hate birthdays.

My birthday to be exact.

I'm not one to celebrate it.

Long & complicated story but it all started when the day came that I could never even tell

when exactly is my birthday.

Call it dementia, heck who cares? Not me for one.

And I found a partner who is one as well.

So what happens is ,

whenever the birthday of the other partner comes;

we wanna make it special,

if you get what I mean.

So anyway,

on the eve of my birthday 

for the sake of this long overdue post..

lemme share a bit of what happened.

Nothing exciting so don't give me that 

PFFT-face  of yours at the end aite?haha!

As soon as we got back to our hotel,

(bought dinner & meds from Discovery Mall)

KFC haha!

Their  KFC is much much better than KFC Singapore.

And our addiction to ROTI-O!

Coffee Bun YUM.

we went down for a while to check out the pool.

And sure sure a few outfit of the day shots were expected to roll.

Camhoe'd for a while....look at le hubs' face; not much of a change in every frame , lol

E & I spent an hour by the pool;

feelin' the night chill, we decided to go up and then 

haf our humble dinner so that I could also

take my meds asap and then....

perhaps call it a night already.

Love this Quest Hotel, it's so peaceful & quiet!

What I Wore

armswag that simply spells me.

cross, skull, denims n pearls, butterfly...mole not included*

My odm complicated  watch from the SPIN Collection:

There are 3 separately moving discs;

each disc has its own function: hour, minute & sec.

as per odm website:

Simply by making use of white silicon rubber and plastics to give different lustrous and matted effects, and matching to 3 distinctly black and white disc-shaped graduation dials which serve as hour-minute-second pointers, simplicity and delicacy can be fully expressed in the design.

The hour indicator is on the farthest right, so it takes a while getting used to..

 but I love it to bits !

When someone asks me for time, I purposely show this to them

 and let them be perplexed just by looking at it. #causeamameanie haha.

So what happened on the eve of my birthday?

What I Read

I had my coffee cup, a Yankee Tangerine Vanilla Aromatherapy Candle & an Archie Comics.

THIS. IS. ME. TIME.

Not that E & I argued or anything..

I politely asked him this is what I wanted on this particular night.

He had no qualms about it;

instead respected what i had wanted.

So does this means someone is really getting old? 

But never too old to read Archie's right? haha!

What I Realized

I am one lucky BITCH.

Well, all my life I thought marriage would be an epidemic;

akin to forever.

Just the word forever unhinges my soul.

Then suddenly this man deftly came;

made me believe on this:

He only wanted to be with this one MAD woman to spend the rest of his life with.

"I'm sorry to break it to you,

but you're it."

Me: "One Mad Woman? Who, me?" 

Truth is,

 am far worse than being MAD.

I'm senile to think before 

that a relationship is just a stupid condom-free sex world;

I'm feeble minded to think before 

that it's innate of men to flirt , it's a camouflaged device to escape their responsibility,

I'm a muttonhead to think before 

that in life and love,

there is always those repeating patterns;

same sloppy kiss;

same passionate hug;

same bed;

same climax;

same climax on the same bed;

same soreness,

same bitterness.

I'm silly to think before 

that the synopsis of an ideal marriage is like slitting one's own throat;

Where's the work of GOD in that?

That after slitting yours,

you'd survive.

I did ... 

and I survived.

And as I thought that dreams always end;

my advice?

Let it end.

You always have another day....

to dream 

to love

to be hurt

and again

s u r v i v e 

I'm a living proof.

Happy..well belated happy birthday WICKERMOSS.

With all the blessings that came upon me

I have nothing else to wish for;

This ♥ can only sing thanks and praise for our Almighty Father.

What have you REALIZED lately?